Marlo Joy update – May 12, 2011 – 27 Weeks

Quick update on Thursday May 13, 2011.

Marlo Joy was taken off the Bili Light, she still has the Bili Blanket, but there is a chance that comes off on Friday!

Growing for Mommy and Daddy

Today, my big sisters and brother came and visited me for the first time!! I put on a good show for them, kicking my feet and moving around. I also got to show them my awesome blue lights! It was so much fun!

She was scheduled for a Heart Echo to see if the Patent ductus arteriosus (PDA) has closed, or if it has opened. On Monday it was small, and all signs point to that it may be closed or still small. If this is closed then they will start her on a very very small amount of breast milk, that her mommy has been diligently pumping day and night.

Marlo also has a brain ultrasound scheduled for Friday morning to see if there is any bleeding in her brain. All signs point to a little or no brain bleed so far.

Marlo’s doctor has also requested another LP (Lumbar Puncture), to check for meningitis (scary due to Marlo’s brother Johnny). This may happen tomorrow or sometime this weekend.

Today, was a day we all celebrate as a victory! We pray tomorrow is another AWESOME Victorious day!! Please pray with us!

Anything but Smart

Do you know the problem with blogging? After a time you start to think you have think you need something to blog about or you need to sound smart. Before Facebook you could just blog, now Facebook and Twitter took the short and often meaningless posts away from blogs.

So my point in this blog post it to make me anything but smart. I am writing just because I am glad you care enough to come to JakeRinard.com. What is not to love about that?!

Headed to Las Vegas

Boise State Broncos are headed to the MAACO Bowl Las Vegas and we are headed there too! Being BSU fans, we are disappointed that we are not headed to a BCS bowl, but happy we get to show our stuff once again. This time we are pitted against Utah, a nationally ranked team.

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Psalms 23

A psalm of David.

1 The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.

4 Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,[a] I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6 Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

As you can see I am playing around with JakeRinard.com. So caution! It may or may not look good when you arrive, but this has always been a playground of sorts for new ideas, and here we go again!

Thank You God for My Family

Today I turn 35. It was a very downer year with the death of my baby son. As I pause and reflect on the year, I see some the down times, but I also see the wonderful times.

Currently I am watching my 3 older kids talk with their aunt as their mom is getting pumpkin pie ready after our wonderful Thanksgiving meal earlier today. This year has afforded me some time to hang out around the house and spend some time with my kids. This time has been very helpful to recover from the unexpected loss of not only our son, but my kid’s baby brother that they hoped for.

We have been able to spend a lot of time together and have traveled from California to Idaho to Ohio and New York. We have made a few trips to Idaho and spent time on the beautiful lake in McCall.

We have been able to go to Disneyland many times and Knott’s a few times as well. We have played, danced, cried, and laughed together.

I cherish the memories with all my wonderful kids and wife. I love them all and thank God for each of them.

Be Thankful in Adversity

“It is in adversity that you will find blessing if you choose to be thankful.”

This year has been one of learning for me. I had never been hit with death so close. I never expected to lose a child. I had wrongly assumed that life would follow a natural course and I would outlive my kids.

This year with the passing of my 8 day old son I am reminded that life is precious. You are never guaranteed any more than this moment. At any time the candle can be blown out.

I am challenged this year to appreciate what we have been given. Never take for granted what you have been given.

This year I have learned to choose to be thankful. I am thankful for my beautiful son, John Carter Rinard. His time was short with me, but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. He is and always will be a part of me that is invaluable. For this I am thankful. I was blessed by his short life. I remember him kicking me while he was in his mommy’s tummy. The time I took his mommy, brother, and sisters to an ultrasound and he rolled over and the kids were amazed at his beauty perfect body.

I am thankful for the moments this year.

It is in adversity that you will find blessing if you choose to be thankful.
-JAR

It’s the Small Things | Focus on Disneyland

Going to Disneyland when you are a kid makes many memories. From walking down Main Street and going through the Magic Shop to riding Peter Pan, or for those Adrenaline Junkie 10 year olds the Matterhorn.

I have always been a roller coaster freak, and since I could walk was going on rides. I love roller coasters to say the least. I remember going on the first roller coaster to go upside down at the Lagoon in Salt Lake City. Not only did I get on it, I talked my cousin into going on it back to back to back. On the 12th trip through the short line for the Colossus, my cousin barfed. I was embarrassed so badly that I quickly headed to get in line again, dragging my cousin with me as she wiped her face.

Some of my youngest memories are from my trips to Disneyland. I remember the rides, the shows, the good food, and so many other things. But what stands out to me the most, and I am still reminded when I go to parks, is how Disneyland paid attention to the small things.

Even though I was young, I noticed how everything looked so clean. Everything always seemed to be new. My parents explained to me how each night when the park closes, the real work for Disney employees begin. They use hundreds and thousands of gallons of paint each night, to keep the handrails and everything painted, just like when it was brand new and shiny.

The park is scrubbed, washed, and repaired. Disney knew that they had to pay special attention to the small things, for people to enjoy and keep spending the cash.

It is the small things that matter. Disney knew how to do it.

In church it takes everyone to focus on the little things and keep the shine.

The challenge is to keep things in tip top shape, and I don’t just mean the hand rails. We have to make sure WE are in tip top shape. I continue my schooling still today, in order to improve myself. When working with staff we have meetings to focus on the wins and improve in any and all areas possible. In marriage I hope we are all working on improving, and making life better for our spouse! Wouldn’t your spouse be surprised if you came home better?!
Possibly slap on some paint!

Let’s take a lesson from Disneyland and remember that It’s the Small Things!

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